Sorrow and Bliss meets Normal People in this utterly compelling, darkly humorous millennial coming-of-age novel about a 27-year-old single Jewish woman in Melbourne who must learn to reconcile family expectations, cultural constraints and inter-generational trauma with her own desires. A coruscating new voice.
At 27, Naomi is just trying to be a normal person. A normal person who works at the Museum of Jewish Heritage, who cares for lost things, found things, sacred things and her family. A person who finds herself going on bad blind dates, having cringe-worthy sex, a tumultuous, toxic affair, and falling for a man called Moses.
Being a normal person would be easy and fine if she didn’t bear the weight of the unspoken grief of Cookie, her Holocaust-survivor grandmother. It would all be fine if she just knew how to be, without feeling the pull of expectation, the fear of disappointing others (men, friends, her parents, humanity), and that pesky problem of being attracted to all the wrong people (according to her parents, anyway).
By endlessly trying to please everyone around her, Naomi can’t seem to figure out what she wants for herself, or how to get it. With echoes of the dead and dying all about her, in objects, in story, in her grandmother’s firm grasp, Naomi isn’t quite sure she knows how to be a normal person, but she is going to try.
This fiercely honest, funny and fearless novel is a deep dive into the complex questions that surround culture, identity politics and generational trauma in contemporary Australia. Both a sadly affectionate and brilliantly unsparing examination of the glorious, awkward, messiness of life.
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I couldn’t put this down and found myself immersed in the Melbourne world of Naomi. In following her life, its ups and downs, I learned about Jewish culture and family life, and despite many differences between us, felt a connection to her character. She was endearing, flaws and all, and felt undeniably authentic. There’s lingering generational trauma here, and a sadness, sense of loss throughout. I was grateful for the dark humour spattered across the pages, which provided welcome relief to otherwise unhappy moments. This is a fantastic debut, and I look forward to seeing what Elise does next. Rowan, TAS, 5 Stars
It had me at ‘Sorrow and Bliss meets Normal People‘ and then it had me at the excellent writing, a grandmother named Cookie, the Melbourne setting, the dark humour mingled with the profound. And let’s not forget the gorgeous cover and catchy title. At twenty-seven, Naomi is a single Jewish woman learning how to navigate what she wants with family expectations, cultural constraints and inter-generational trauma. It’s a story of identity, death and desire but also so much more. I loved the way Hearst explores the complexities of family and Jewish culture in contemporary Australia. I now want to visit the Jewish Museum in Melbourne and I most definitely want to read everything Elise Esther Hearst writes. One Day We’re All Going to Die is extremely bingeable yet one you won’t want to end! Julia, NSW, 5 Stars
Hooked from the first page. If you enjoyed Normal People than this is your book. Naomi’s character was so relatable and loved her special bond with her grandmother Cookie. If you only read one book this year, this is it. Natalie, WA, 5 Stars
What an amazing book! The multigenerational story is engrossing. The first-person narrative makes it personal and conversations seem very natural. I learnt some things about Jewish tradition along the way. All aspects of life are shown across the generations – the good and the bad, the love and the bad behaviour, the whole messiness of family. Anne, NSW, 5 Stars
This book captivated me from the first chapter. I remember having it all figured out when I was 27, but could still resonate with Naomi so much. Her struggles are so real and her need to please all around her so intense. I would love to see what happens to Naomi in the 10 years after this book takes place. What an outstanding debut novel. This book and its characters would be compelling on the big screen too. Nikki, VIC, 5 Stars
An intriguing story that places the reader in the middle of Naomi’s quarter-life coming-of-age crisis. Hearst endearingly captures the vulnerable duality of her protagonist, a 27-year-old Melbournian, who is equal parts millennial and old soul as she grapples with the messiness of everyday life and the consequences of some ill-conceived decisions. As she unwittingly seeks the approval and attention of those closest to her, Naomi provides valuable insight into her Jewish culture in contemporary Australia. This is an easy and enjoyable read and I would recommend it be added to your Spring to be read pile. Maria, NSW, 5 Stars
Loved this book from the first page to the last, the background of her family and the Jewish culture was great and things I was unaware of, and her journey with her grandparents and family and how this all fell into her relationships. How she handled this on a day-to-day basis with trying to keep her family and grandparents happy was an honourary way to pay homage to her upbringing. I just could not put the book down and will be recommending it to my book club. Well done on a great book and read and opening my eyes to the Jewish culture and how they look after their family. Great read and I feel it was well written. Debbie, NSW, 5 Stars
A beautiful book. I couldn’t put it down and didn’t want it to end. Naomi is a flawed character but one we can all identify with. With all her complexities I adored her. One of the best books I’ve read recently. Litsa, VIC, 5 Stars
This book!! This book left me an absolute wreck. It really tore at the heartstrings and it definitely hit very close to home in some parts. When I was reading it I thought, okay, this feels like how life is – mediocre moments that later feel so incredibly significant. One Day We’re All Going To Die is a touching coming-of-age story about a single, deeply flawed, 27-year-old Jewish woman living in Melbourne tackling work life, the dating scene and familial expectations. There is this constant feeling of hopelessness and shame, trickled with dark humour. It definitely took me back to my twenties and was just so relatable. Whilst I’m not Jewish, the reflective nature of this powerful debut made me feel the impact of generational trauma deep in my bones. This book is about culture, relationships, power, the complexity of family dynamics, love and loss. It will reel you in and leave an imprint on your heart – I know it has on mine. What you can expect: Sorrow and Bliss vibes, flawed, relatable characters, insight into Jewish culture, all the tears. I can’t stop thinking about this book and I know it’s one of those stories that will stay with me forever. Highly recommend! Liz, NSW, 5 Stars
Naomi is a 27-year-old single woman born in a Jewish family. She works at a Jewish museum in suburban Melbourne and is good at what she does. Relationships are a different matter for her. Her grandmother was a survivor of the holocaust but refuses to talk about it and she visits her nursing home often. It is how she gets on with others in her life that is the base of the novel. It is the author’s first book and I am sure there will be many more. Jill, VIC, 5 Stars
Thoroughly good read. It brings the reader into the many heartaches and misjudgments of love and relationships of the main character Naomi, trying to juggle life as she is torn between her desire to please everyone and getting hurt in the end result. Pulled between her Jewish obligations and the past horrors of The Holocaust borne by her grandmother and her parents and the now “privileged” life she leads, due to the hard work of their perseverance to provide a better life. I enjoyed it immensely and would highly recommend. Claudia, SA, 5 Stars
A must-read. Naomi took me back to the dilemma of trying to please your parents and never winning the situation due to your religion or nationality. The characters like Cookie and Naomi herself are lovable. A book that makes you laugh and think about the circumstances that Naomi has put herself in. This book is one I will keep returning to as I couldn’t put it down. Elise is a wonderful writer considering this is her first novel. Can’t wait to read more from her. Lorraine, VIC, 5 Stars
Wow, what a great first book for this author. You were drawn into the story of Jewish parents and grandparents and their heritage with the main Character Naomi. It was a very uplifting story of her life and loves, but at the heart of this story was a strong sense of family and friends. Well written by the author and look forward to future books by her. I thoroughly recommend this book to you all. Denise, QLD, 5 Stars
Having devoured the pages of this utterly compelling and darkly humorous millennial coming-of-age novel, I was captivated by the story of Naomi, a 27-year-old single Jewish woman in Melbourne. Struggling to reconcile family expectations, cultural constraints, and inter-generational trauma with her own desires, Naomi works at the Museum of Jewish Heritage and navigates a tumultuous love life. Amidst the weight of unspoken grief from her Holocaust-survivor grandmother, Cookie, Naomi grapples with pleasing others and discovering her true self. The novel’s fearless exploration of culture, identity politics, and generational trauma in contemporary Australia is both heartwarming and raw, delivering a coruscating new voice that lingers long after the last page. Kerrie, NSW, 5 Stars
The story follows the main character Naomi, a character who has flaws like all of us but it so endearing too. We learn about her relationship with her parents and sister, and as these family ties are explained there are so many very funny moments. Just as suddenly a serious issue is addressed but so subtly and with such care the paragraphs blend beautifully and my emotions coped beautifully too. Naomi’s connection with her beloved grandmother Cookie is shared frequently and Cookie herself has very funny sayings that have got her through a life full of trauma. Naomi has the utmost respect for Cookie and her granddad David, even though she frequently forgets her appointments with them! Grief is shared as well, but again in a remarkable and not sad way. As Naomi realises she makes wrong decisions, especially in regards to her love life, she returns to her family for support and love. I read the novel very quickly and found it so enjoyable. I think the author will go far and the book will be very popular. I also loved learning more about the Jewish Museum, in Melbourne, Australia. Toni, QLD, 5 Stars
I really enjoyed this debut novel. I had difficulty putting it down. A great storyline about a Jewish young lady navigating her work, family and love life. The ups and downs and challenges and how her family can sometimes ultimately affect the decisions she makes whether she wants them to or not. Highly recommend this book! Amanda, QLD, 5 Stars
A novel full of despair and loneliness. I enjoyed reading Elise Esther Hearst’s novel. A coming of age novel that is very relatable. A thoroughly enjoyable read. Teresa, VIC, 4 Stars
Considering this is a debut novel for Elise Esther Hearst, I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was a clever depiction of the main character Naomi trying to navigate a somewhat normal life while trying to live up to the expectations of her family and cultural heritage. Kerry, WA, 4 Stars
A quality debut by Elise Esther Hearst that explores the dilemma of pushing cultural boundaries across generations. The book is an easy and enjoyable read, with a style that can engage the reader in the opening paragraph. The narrative moves quickly and the use of subtle (sometimes slightly black) humour works well. But, at times, the story doesn’t seem to be moving in any clear direction. I felt that this lack of direction clearly reflects the life of Naomi, the main character. Naomi is free-spirited, a bit bohemian and very creative, but her life is in a holding pattern. The story delves into the psychological and emotional factors that shape Naomi’s life, as she navigates the demands of her matriarchal grandmother and interfering parents who totally disregard her privacy. Through Namoi’s work in the Jewish museum, we are given some insight into the history and heritage of the Jewish people and how they interact with their families and other members of their community. My favourite character is Gemma, Naomi’s friend and housemate. Gemma is a good match for Naomi, who may inspire Naomi to be more like her, to be the person she wants to be – if only she knew how. Elise Esther Hearst is an exciting and excellent storyteller. Susan, QLD, 4 Stars
A heartwarming story of the life and loves of a young Jewish woman. Naomi battles against the expectations of her family and society as she tries to find her place. The rich characters and their relationships were engrossing and I particularly enjoyed the no-nonsense grandmother and her antics. One Day We’re All Going to Die was captivating and I found it difficult to put down. Definitely one to add to your reading list. Karyn, WA, 4 Stars
I really enjoyed this book! The blurb compares it to Sorrow and Bliss as well as Normal People, which are two books I have read and loved, so I definitely had high expectations. With that said, I thought it was great. I loved the character of Naomi, although at times she is not the most likeable, and I enjoyed the humour woven throughout. Would definitely recommend to readers who are fans of this genre. Emily, QLD, 4 Stars
I really enjoyed reading One Day We’re All Going to Die. I could relate to Naomi in parts, especially re the gloopy tofu, and the book was packed with some witty comments & light-hearted moments. Modern references and a “what happens next” theme kept me hooked. Full of things that make you really ponder and interesting characters made this a fantastic read. Bianca, NSW, 4 Stars
A gritty, no-holds-barred novel that explores challenges faced by a young woman with Jewish heritage in modern-day Melbourne. With the weight of family and cultural heritage expectations surrounding her, both in her home and work life, Naomi is trying to discover her own place in the world as she tries to align these with the trappings of being a modern, working woman. In an effort to constantly please those around her, Naomi has lost sight of herself. Through a series of failed relationships and job changes, she comes to the conclusion that she needs to reconcile all of the parts of herself in order to move forward in the world. Elise Esther Hearst has written a confronting and graphic exploration of character, generational trauma and family politics. At times funny, and others challenging, this is a book that may leave you a little uncomfortable but will certainly get you thinking. Karina, QLD, 4 Stars
A very interesting book, filled with romance, history and interesting points on being Jewish. How the main character balances the love of her job friends family and her feelings of self-loathing and worth not just as a Jewish woman but as a daughter and friend. Colleen, VIC, 4 Stars
At first glance there was much I didn’t really relate to, being older and non-Jewish for starters, and initially not liking Naomi. I was surprised to find myself being drawn in and feeling a deep empathy for her. Naomi is a somewhat spoilt, sheltered and rudderless 27-year-old, ambivalent in her life, her mother says, in contrast to the care and commitment she displays in her work at the Museum of Jewish Heritage, where, as also in her family life, she is surrounded by the echoes of the dead. Naomi lives with Gemma, a friend, in a house bought for her by her parents, but may as well still be with her family. Everything she has, from her name to her underwear, has been given to her by her parents, leaving her with a sense of dependency and social ineptness. Juanita, NSW, 4 Stars
I enjoyed reading this book. It was funny, true to life, and quite relatable. I liked the main character’s sense of humour and straight talking, and how she is trying to live her best life in a world of old and new traditions, and is also trying to make her own way in the world and not listen to everyone around her. She is quite vulnerable and independent. I found this very relatable and quite believable. The author’s sense of humour shines through. Being a people pleaser myself, I could see lots of moments that could easily be a part of my life. This book was easy to read. Definitely worth reading. Sandra, WA, 4 Stars
I was lucky enough to receive a copy of this book, One Day We’re All Going To Die, debut novel by Elise Esther Hearst. This book talks about the Jewish religion, and particularly the effects of the Holocaust on Naomi’s (main character) grandmother, known as Cookie. Naomi is very involved in caring for her grandmother, whilst trying to make a different life for herself in Australia. However, family constraints and beliefs make it difficult for her. This is not my usual book genre, but I really enjoyed it. Stacey, NSW, 4 Stars
I love how readable this was. The reading was quick, easy to pick up and put down, with a topic I do not often delve into. This is a Jewish family, with much culture described all the way through. Set in Melbourne, Naomi is in her late 20s, Melbourne, and does not know what she’s doing with her life. She knows what she is doing isn’t satisfactory to her parents, a wealthy boundary-lacking set of individuals who love their offspring, but are terribly co-dependant. There is a lot of sex and quite graphic stuff, but this suited the story; Naomi was a little wild, the author wrote of a torn and angsty woman well. This was a good read about generations, boundaries, culture and the quandary of pushing the limits of these. A quality debut, looking forward to seeing more. Brendan, NSW, 4 Stars
A wonderful insight into a slice of the community, traditions, family and expectations. It is easy to invest in the characters like Naomi who make mistakes, are vulnerable and love those around them. It is dark and funny, very easy to read. Tina, QLD, 4 Stars
Thanks for the opportunity to read One Day We’re All Going To Die by Elise Esther Hearst – this debut novel had me enthralled from the beginning. It follows Naomi in her late 20s and her everyday life as the daughter and granddaughter of Jewish heritage. I really enjoyed this debut novel. Fiona, VIC, 4 Stars
I loved this book! It’s an honest and funny look at life as a Jewish woman in her twenties, living in Melbourne. As a woman in my twenties, it’s hard to know what way is up sometimes… and this book made me feel seen. I recommend giving it a go! Viktoria, WA, 4 Stars
One Day We’re All Going to Die is Elise Esther Hearst’s first novel, she is a Melbourne-based playwright. This novel covers the Jewish religion and the effects of the Holocaust on the survivors and the next generations. It makes you laugh and want to cry and be prepared for some explicit sex scenes. Naomi, a 27-year-old Jewish woman is trying to find where she fits in with her family, work colleagues, friends and 21st century Jewish lifestyle. She becomes lost trying to please everyone around her, and trying to find what she really wants for herself. Her parents want her to find a suitable Jewish partner to marry and settle down. Naomi loves her grandmother, Cookie a holocaust survivor. Naomi tries to understand why Cookie doesn’t want to talk about those days. I recommend this to readers looking for something new and different to read. Karen, VIC, 4 Stars
I unexpectedly loved this. The main character, Naomi, was such a mood, and it’s written so well you can zip through it in no time. Naomi crashes into all types of romantic relationships and every disaster, she just shrugs it off and moves on – which I feel is the highlight of this novel. Her ability to move upwards from each scenario, it was heartwarming to read. Her family are hilarious, and you can really capture the connection between them. Kylie, NSW, 4 Stars
It was an interesting insight into Naomi’s life as a modern Jewish lady growing up with the weight of the cultural expectations of her in regards to career and romance. At times she is hard to like and frustrating, especially in her relationships and lack of knowing what she really wants but I she did mature in the end. I really enjoy learning about different religions and cultures, and so thoroughly enjoyed this book. Sally, NSW, 4 Stars
“The problem was I didn’t know what I wanted for myself”. This feeling, expressed by the main character, in many ways summarises the book. Naomi, a young Jewish woman in her later twenties, would like to be ‘normal’ but finds it difficult as she feels pressured to behave as is expected by her family. She is very good at her job at the Jewish Museum and enjoys the work; she has friends and regular dates. She often visits her grandmother, a survivor from the Holocaust who says little about her past and Naomi would like to somehow ease the grief she carries. Her parents have always been very protective and want what they see as the best for her and regularly remark on some of her ‘choices’ which leaves Naomi conflicted as she would like to be independent, but culture, traditions and family seem to hold her back. With the passing of Cookie, Naomi realises that she can take charge of her life and career and finally live her life on her terms. This novel should appeal to young adults trying to ‘find themselves’ and fit into this complicated world. Marie, NSW, 4 Stars
A quirky novel with a fresh look from a 27-year-old Jewish woman that takes you on a journey like no other. Elise Esther Hearst creates a wonderful easy-to-read story that captures the audience’s imagination. Rhonda, QLD, 4 Stars
This is a gentle, tender read centring on Naomi, our 27-year-old protagonist who is struggling to come to terms with adult life. She is fiercely loved by her close Jewish family, but is torn between pleasing them and forging her own path. This causes her to constantly question her life, both professionally and romantically. She is a flawed yet endearing character and the book takes us with her through her complicated life. The inter-generational trauma experienced by the Jewish community gives this otherwise funny and whimsical story a more gritty feel. Lisa, QLD, 4 Stars
Families, relationships, careers, finances, friendships – it’s all complicated and inescapable. Hearst covers a lot of ground and I think she strikes a good balance between all the issues (romance and sex, privilege, culture, work, money, identity…) but especially family, in both their absence and their persistence in our lives. I imagine the relationship between someone who carries the weight of their family’s heritage and someone whose family is small and fractured is especially complex to navigate. There are things that each will never fully comprehend about the other. Hearst does not wrap things up neatly because life doesn’t look like that. All we can hope for as we move through life is compassion, remembering to save a little for ourselves. Hannah, NSW, 4 Stars
A heartfelt fast fast-paced entertaining amusing and informative story about Naomi. She is a 27-year-old with a great life being lived and a great life ahead. Naomi is a character full of interesting friends, lovers and family always trying to please everyone and do right. Sometimes this is at her own expense while she deals with the complexities and complications of her relationships with those around her. She has been brought up in a privileged home by a loving family, and a special relationships with them all. There’s an affair, arguments, lost jobs, failures and death but it’s all life, sometimes funny, sad, and makes you angry or frustrated, but still normal. And yes, one day we’re all going to die, so for now let’s live! Caroline, NSW, 4 Stars
This book was very different to any book I have read in recent years. The story of 27-year-old Naomi trying to find her place in life as a young Jewish woman. She seems to enjoy meeting people, especially men. I really struggled over the intimate details of her sexual experiences with different men but overall it was a very interesting story to follow of the Jewish museum where she worked as a curator. Pushy parents who didn’t like any of the men she met as they weren’t Jewish, as often happens in society today amongst different ethnic groups. But I found I just had to finish it to see how Naomi ended up. Janet, QLD, 4 Stars
For a first-time author, this book is well-written, engaging, and opened my eyes to a different culture. The story follows the life of Naomi, a 27-year-old Jewish Museum employee who has a close bond with her parents but most importantly her Grandmother Cookie (a holocaust survivor). Naomi stumbles through stages of love, life and friendship. Sharnee, QLD, 4 Stars
One Day We’re All Going to Die is a look into the life of a 27-year-old Naomi as she navigates love, work, and relationships while adhering to her Jewish culture. I loved the vulnerability of Naomi and the way the reader is exposed to her relationships, good and bad. I especially loved the relationship between Naomi and her grandmother, how they both felt safe in each other’s company to expose their quirkiness. I did find the Jewish customs and references confusing as I felt it assumed the reader had the background knowledge to understand the references. At times in the story, I wanted to yell at Naomi to sort herself out, grow up, don’t be taken advantage of and yet other times I was inspired by her kindness and loyalty. I thoroughly enjoyed the story and was sad when I realised I had finished the book as I wanted to continue living life through Naomi. Robyn, QLD, 4 Stars
One Day We’re All Going to Die is the story of a young Jewish woman trying to find her place in the world amid her own desires and the expectations of others. It’s unexpectedly engaging and refreshing in its approach to the heroine’s responses to the choices, even the bad ones that she makes. The story illustrates with circumspect humour the complexities of life and its inevitable entanglements despite her best intentions. This is no half-life novel drowning in regret. This is about trying to be, despite all the expectations that can weigh one down, especially when surrounded by those you love and want to please. I am reminded of Zorba the Greek when he says life is trouble only death is not. There are no straight paths in life, with many points of view, each differing and competing depending on social expectations, generational aspirations as well as personal dreams. One Day We’re All Going to Die is an exquisite debut novel that thoughtfully ponders upon the maelstrom of life. HR, NSW, 4 Stars
Main character Naomi is so likeable; perfectly imperfect and very relatable. She works to navigate family, love and work, whilst also balancing her identity as a Jewish woman. I really enjoyed accompanying her on the journey. Emma, QLD, 4 Stars
One Day We’re All Going to Die is a beautiful, funny, and heart-rending debut novel by Australian author Elise Esther Hearst. Twenty-seven-year-old Naomi runs smack dab into life and all its issues. She just wants to be a normal person, whatever that is, but how can she figure out what her goals are, what she wants to do, what her genuine interests are, and what she likes when she keeps on meeting all the wrong men? On top of this, she is trying to please everyone and bear the weight of the unspoken grief of Cookie, her Holocaust-survivor grandmother. The book is extremely well-written, descriptive, and the author has created well-developed characters. They are relatable or connected to the story in a significant way. I found Naomi, the protagonist, to be smart, funny, and full of life. I really enjoyed the cultural intelligence and awareness of the author and the way she seamlessly knits in many emotions and the complexities revolving around life and death in an engaging way. This is a delightfully charming story that readers of ethnic backgrounds will surely relate to. As we all know, things are not always easy when it comes to family matters and expectations. Melissa, SA, 4 Stars
I was drawn to this book by both the title and the cover and I ended up really enjoying the read. Naomi is a young woman in Melbourne. She works at the Jewish Museum, has a close relationship with her parents and grandparents, and a personality that is always trying to please everyone (especially the parents). Her love life gets complicated when she becomes involved with her married (more senior) coworker. There’s plenty of humour in the writing that made it a pleasure especially the character of her grandmother, Cookie. Janelle, NSW, 4 Stars
Such a humorous, raw and emotional book, this got to me more than I thought it would! Trying to be normal is not easy, especially for Naomi whose ups and downs in her life will have you laughing and crying almost at the same time. Having family who don’t agree with her choices is one of the hardest things she has to deal with, but will she listen to them or go her own way and potentially fracture their relationship? Sarah, QLD, 4 Stars
This was a brilliant story about a young woman navigating life through love, family dynamics and heartbreak. Naomi thought she was in love. She thought he loved her but she soon discovered who he really was and she had to learn how to heal and move on. The background story of faith and how it intertwined relationships was well written. I really enjoyed this novel. Tayla, VIC, 4 Stars
I really enjoyed this and read it in one sitting as I couldn’t put it down. While I was a little lost in some of the Jewish terminology I got the gist of what most things meant. The main character, Naomi, is a very everyday person, likable and honest. I found myself feeling for her and what she goes through and why. I felt that I had a window into some of her most personal thoughts and moments and had a good understanding of her. The family dynamics and relationships were fascinating and honest. I particularly liked Cookie, her grandmother, and the bond they share. It’s a very thought-provoking book. Being single is hard enough but when family dynamics come into play as well it can add a different perspective. A great read that drew me in. Tracey, NSW, 4 Stars
A story set around modern Jewish life and how easily the heart can break. Naomi’s heart leads her into complicated relationships and she tries to navigate as best she can with the support of her family. By the end, you will be rooting for Naomi and her complicated love life. Penny, QLD, 3 Stars
I was intrigued by the title of this book, and it was a draw-card for me. I was keen to see what the author meant by it. This debut novel was well written and I enjoyed getting to know the main character, Naomi, who is a 27-year-old single Jewish woman living in Melbourne. She seems to be driven by a need for acceptance and this results in her being taken advantage of, as she finds herself falling for all the wrong men and friends. She desperately wants to lead a normal life but doesn’t know how. I felt quite sorry for her. Naomi worked as a custodian at the Jewish Museum in Melbourne, and I enjoyed learning about the museum and what it meant to be a custodian for Jewish artifacts, which included lost things, found things and sacred things. Clearly, Naomi enjoyed her work and excelled at it. The thing that spoiled the book for me was the overuse of the F word and the quite explicit sex scenes, which made me feel like an intruder in the bedroom and, in my opinion, didn’t really add to the story. In spite of that, I read the book in a couple of sittings and will be hoping to read any future books by this author. Ruth, WA, 3 Stars
I started reading this not knowing how I would go, given that it isn’t a genre I would normally opt for. However, I was immediately drawn into the world of Naomi as she navigates her family relationships, cultural and religious expectations, and failed romantic pursuits. I ended up finishing this fairly quickly, and thoroughly enjoyed it. Kirra, NSW, 3 Stars
Enjoyable read. The main character was relatable to me and it was wonderful to see her evolve through the novel. I especially loved her relationship with Cookie. Casey, NSW, 3 Stars
This novel follows Naomi, a 20-something, as she navigates the high and lows of relationships – romantic, familial and friendships. I found it a little slow to start, finding the second half of the story far more interesting and engaging. My favourite part of the novel was the exploration of Naomi’s connection to her Jewish culture. All in all, this was a readable novel with interesting aspects of Jewish history and culture. Laura, NSW, 3 Stars
I enjoyed this book. Although it took me a while to get into it I ended up not being able to put it down. Christine, QLD, 3 Stars
This is an account of a pivotal time in the life of Naomi, a late 20s Jewish woman living in Melbourne. It provides an insight into how her family’s past influences her on a day-to-day basis, affecting her relationships and perceptions of life. Although I could not relate to much of her experience, I still found the book interesting, thought-provoking and felt like I was accompanying her on this journey of ultimately reaching maturity and empowerment. Regina, NSW, 3 Stars
At first, the book proved difficult to get into, lacking the initial hook that draws readers in. However, with perseverance, the book becomes more engrossing as Naomi’s relationships begin to take center stage especially when exploring Naomi’s connection with her grandmother and parents, drawing upon themes of family and the nature of modern relationships mixed with differing cultural values. Overall the book offers a compelling look into the dynamic between love and desire that many readers will relate to. Stalla, VIC, 3 Stars
I wish I had read this book when I was a lot younger, I could have related to it more. But it did remind me about my young love pursuits, mistakes, trials and tribulations. The first chapter did not grab my attention much, even found it a bit offensive, but it got more interesting and when the connections started to take place it made more sense. Personally, I did not enjoy reading about some things that were way too private for my liking, and was not after an R-rated read. Mostly the book though is light-hearted and ends up somewhere you don’t expect. Well written, honest and entertaining. Linda, VIC, 3 Stars
The first person narrative of this novel draws you in as an intimate, tell-all, personal diary account of the life and experiences of Naomi, a 27-year-old Jewish woman who works in The Museum of Jewish Heritage with Josh, her boss. We learn of her close relationship with her colourful 95-year-old grandmother Cookie and her mentally challenged husband Dave who live in a nursing home. She has challenging relationships with her mother and a divorced younger sister and has a close girlfriend Gemma. Fran, VIC, 3 Stars
One Day We’re All Going to Die by Elise Esther Hearst could be described as contemporary coming-of-age novel. 27-year-old Naomi lives in Melbourne and works in the Jewish Museum, she seems to be at a turning point in her life with an unfulfilling job and love life and has a strained relationship with her family. There is plenty of dark humour in the story as well as lots of references to sex and to Jewish culture. I liked the character of her grandmother Cookie but found most of the other characters shallow and unlikeable. Janelle, NSW, 3 Stars
Ghosts and Really Good, Actually told from a new and engaging perspective. Rose, VIC, 3 Stars
I had the book for a while. The title conjured death all around, but thankfully it wasn’t the case. It depicted the story of Naomi a Jewish girl living in Melbourne. Living in two worlds: one as a Jew and one as not. Many characters were introduced into the story as it went along, including a few partners that came into and out of her life. The book was quite explicit with sexual references, which I felt at times took away from the story. The star of the book was “Cookie” the endearing grandmother with a modern touch. In all a good book. Cheryl, VIC, 3 Stars
Story about a young Jewish woman trying to find her own path in life and learning not to rely on her parents so much and what real love is. Well written with likeable characters. I loved Cookie, she reminded me of my own Nana. Great ending. Would love to know what Naomi does next. Katrina, QLD, 3 Stars
I am not entirely sure how much I liked this book. Largely because there were few characters I found appealing (only Naomi’s dad and Gemma) and other characters who really annoyed me (Naomi herself and Melanie). The locations were great and the dialogue was excellent and I did get caught up in the story, but I was glad to finish the book. It was all just a little bit bleak, and while I don’t have to have ‘happily ever after’ I do prefer my fiction to end with some optimism! Can’t even give this one to my book buddy neighbour as I suspect the sex scenes might be a wee bit graphic for her. All up, well-written contemporary themes but not for me. Victoria, NSW, 3 Stars
A modern-day story of a young woman from a Jewish background, whose family loosely follows the traditions of their ancestry in suburban Melbourne. Dysfunctional communication keeps them connected at a superficial level, although there is an underlying deeper connection, especially between young Naomi and her maternal grandmother Cookie. Searching for meaningful interaction Naomi seeks it in unfulfilling sexual endeavours, which leave her forever wanting. An interesting chronicle of one family’s journey. Lisa, NSW, 3 Stars
One Day We’re All Going To Die by Elise Esther Hearst tells of the struggles and achievements of a young Australian Jewish Woman who is navigating her way through modern society. Hearst uses an endearing lead character to take the reader on a path of discovery entailing not only the inside thoughts and actions of a young woman, but also on a deep exploration of the Jewish culture; in the generations after the Holocaust. Whilst there are no major events, persay, within the story, the twists and turns of everyday life, as told through the voice of such an emotionally charged character such as Naomi, means that One Day We’re All Going To Die has the reader itching to know what happens next. The book gave an insight into one part of Naomi’s life, and it was up to me, as the reader, to interpret what might happen in the times following. Jessica, NSW, 3 Stars
One Day We’re All Going To Die by Elise Esther Hearst was indeed a darkly humorous coming-of-age tale about 27-year-old Naomi who deals with the expectations placed upon her by family, her religion and her own desires for life. Cheeky exploration into her relationships, glimpses of her sex life and day-to-day traumas are faced, all done with a light touch. It wouldn’t be a book I’d normally pick up as feels that it delves a little too much information on subjects but was a fast-paced story. Rachael, NSW, 3 Stars
The title of this story is eye-catching and the reason why I wanted to read this book. I think the synopsis provided also helped with its reference to black comedy. The story is about a young Jewish woman, Naomi, who is coming to terms with the life of her holocaust survivor Grandmother, Cookie. The book is well-written, easy to read and will appeal to many. I especially loved that the story is based in Melbourne, Australia and the touching ending. However, I found the storyline very difficult to get into and not that funny in any sense. It seemed to take you through the mundane aspects of Naomi’s life experiences and emotions – an everyday person at 27 years of age. I could identify with some situations. Michelle, QLD, 2 Stars
I found this journey with Naomi, a 27-year-old Jewish girl, trying to find her way in the world, somewhat disturbing and annoying. The novel gave me more detail about her sex life than I was comfortable with. I did gain insights into her family relationships, her work life and friends. I just found her frustrating, as did her mum. I also found the conclusion left me hanging. Perhaps there will be a sequel. I did enjoy the glimpse into the life of Jewish folk living in Australia. I think a younger person than me might well enjoy this story. It was just not my cup of tea. Helen, NSW, 2 Stars
This book is a reflective story that many young adults could relate to as they grow up and try to find out who they are among societal, familial and cultural expectations. Although there were many facets to the narrative that I could relate to, I didn’t overly enjoy the book, and found that I felt quite down whilst reading and found the ending a little underwhelming. However, this is just my opinion and I am sure there are many people who will really love this book. Alexandra, TAS, 2 Stars
A dark humorous read. Naomi battles to reconcile her own expectations of happiness along with that of her family and Jewish community expectations. Coming from a wealthy background she appears to be spoon-fed her whole life and struggles to stand on her own feet despite being nearly 30. Personally, I found it hard to bond with Naomi and was waiting for the plot to have a twist or a central theme but felt like it never arrived. I did however enjoy the character of Cookie who reminded me of my own grandmother. It is a quick and easy read that might be a good holiday/plane/beach read if you like the kind of confused romance and comedy type of theme. Tracey, TAS, 1 Star
Thank you for the opportunity to read this book I am sorry to say that it was not my “cup of tea”. Too much sex… This seemed to be about a very lost soul who would have sex and still not be happy. Her journey was sad I want to know if she ever becomes stable and content. Pat, QLD, 1 Star
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