You Have the Perfect Book for a Friend. There’s Just One Problem. They Don’t Want It.

You Have the Perfect Book for a Friend. There’s Just One Problem. They Don’t Want It.

I was with my bestie the other night and we were moving one of her shelves when a book fell off. Not just any book… but the book. The Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley. We shared a look – countless unsaid words. And then continued moving the shelves.

Years ago, I’d given her The Mists of Avalon telling her how much I loved it and how she simply had to read it. She never did. Around the same time, I was heading to India and she gave me her precious copy of Salman Rushdie’s Midnight’s Children. She believed India would change my life (it did, I picked up a parasite) and that I would adore the book. I couldn’t get past the first chapter.

Often, we give others the books we love, or think they should read, rather than what they actually want to read. I asked my Better Reading colleagues what they thought of this.

Melissa

For the last two years at Christmas I have bought my two best friends my two favourite reads for the year – last year it was Boy Swallows Universe and The Lost Flowers of Alice Hart. After unwrapping them and commenting on the beautiful covers I never heard another word… it’s nearly Christmas time again!

Bec

I absolutely loved the book Stalking Jack the Ripper by Kerri Maniscalco. It’s a YA historical fiction. I bought it for a friend after raving about it for weeks. To her credit, she read it. And despised it.

 

What are the books you loved and shared with a friend, who didn’t feel the same way about the book? 

 

 

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                      1. Anne says:

                        A reversal of the above:
                        I was given The Ghormengast Trilogy by someone who said it was the best book they ever read. I tried numerous times but couldn’t read more than a few chapters & was dreading our next get together as I knew he would asked if I enjoyed the book. I had to be honest in case he wanted to discuss it! Kept it for many years but eventually I donated it to an op shop. Hopefully someone else enjoyed it.

                      2. Veronica says:

                        I’d read so many great reviews about The Light Between Oceans I bought a copy for myself and my mum. Mum loved it. She loved it so much she told me everything about the story before I had a chance to read the book. 🙂

                      3. Sarah Williams says:

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                      4. Mark Evans says:

                        I’ve definitely had that experience sometimes the perfect book arrives at the wrong moment, and that’s okay. I recently came across https://dallascountycourts.org while looking into public information and it reminded me that the right resource only helps when someone is ready for it. Books feel the same way; timing can make all the difference. Hopefully that friend picks it up when the moment is right.

                      5. Ava Johnson says:

                        That’s such a relatable situation having the perfect book in mind but realizing it may not land the way we expect. Sometimes timing matters more than the gift itself, even when the intention is genuine and thoughtful. It also reminds me how people often overlook useful resources like https://chestercountycourts.org when searching for clear public information. In the end understanding someone’s interest makes all the difference in how any message or gift is received.